Guest Blog – Recurrent Miscarriage: Beyond “Bad Luck”

A Fertility Acupuncturist’s Perspective

Miscarriage refers to the loss of a pregnancy before 24 weeks, often described as during the first 23 weeks. Beyond the physical event, it can carry a significant emotional and psychological impact.

During this time, many women find themselves navigating a complex landscape of information, decisions, and support. Understanding what is available through the NHS, what requires referral, and what may involve private care can feel challenging at an already difficult time.

The desire for answers is entirely natural. Yet even in cases of recurrent miscarriage, investigations do not always reveal a clear explanation. Many women describe repeated loss being attributed to “bad luck”, with the advice simply being to try again. Recurrent miscarriage can have a significant emotional impact, affecting confidence, wellbeing, and the sense of trust in one’s own body.

Having experienced recurrent miscarriage myself, I understand how disorientating this period can feel. In clinical practice, I now support women navigating this same path and recognise how valuable it can be to control the controllable and explore supportive options. 

Miscarriage: Causes and investigations

From a medical perspective, chromosomal abnormalities are recognised as the most common cause of an individual miscarriage. These changes are usually chance events and are not typically associated with something that could have been predicted or prevented.

The products of conception is not always tested for chromosomal abnormalities, and access to testing can vary depending on individual circumstances and local services. As a result, many women do not receive a definitive explanation for their loss.

Recurrent miscarriage is commonly defined as three or more first-trimester losses and is estimated to affect around one percent of couples. In the UK, investigations are most often offered after three miscarriages, although some services may consider earlier assessment depending on clinical history.

According to NHS guidance:

• Further investigations are usually offered after recurrent losses

• No clear cause is identified in around half of cases

• Early ultrasound scans are often offered in subsequent pregnancies

Investigations after recurrent miscarriage

Investigations are not typically offered after a single miscarriage and are often still not offered after a second loss. Being advised to ‘try again’ following two miscarriages, with no change in approach, can feel difficult to accept.

Following three pregnancy losses, investigations are usually offered within NHS care.

These commonly include:

• Coagulation and clotting panels, including antiphospholipid antibodies

• Thyroid function testing

• Screening for conditions such as coeliac disease

In some cases, you may be offered further pelvic investigations such as ultrasound, HyCoSy, hysteroscopy, laparoscopy or biopsy.

Depending on clinical history, additional investigations, including genetic testing, may also be considered.

Private testing 

In some situations, investigations accessed outside of NHS care may also be valuable in cases of recurrent miscarriage. These can include more detailed hormone panels, sperm DNA fragmentation testing, microbiome testing, and selected immune investigations, such as natural killer cell assessment or TH1/TH2 profiling.

For couples undergoing IVF, discussions may sometimes include the potential role of preimplantation genetic testing (PGT-A) and other specialist endometrial investigations. 

The often overlooked 50%

Recurrent miscarriage affects both partners, yet male investigations are not always explored early on.

Sperm quality plays an important role in embryo development. Even when a standard semen analysis appears normal, elevated sperm DNA fragmentation may still be present. Increased DNA fragmentation has been associated with recurrent pregnancy loss.

In selected cases, further discussions with a fertility clinic or specialist may include:

• Sperm DNA fragmentation testing

• Assessment for infection or inflammation

• Evaluation of oxidative stress where appropriate

The need for reassurance and agency

Following pregnancy loss, many women understandably wish to feel they are doing something proactive. This often leads them to explore supportive approaches such as acupuncture.

Even after a single miscarriage, women may choose to:

• Review hormone patterns

• Track ovulation

• Assess luteal phase length

• Explore nutritional status

For many, gathering information and feeling supported helps restore a sense of control.

Pregnancy after loss

Pregnancy following recurrent miscarriage can feel emotionally complex. Hope may sit alongside worry, particularly during the early weeks.

The time between scans can feel long and uncertain. Many women move quietly through this period, waiting before sharing their news. Many women navigate this period largely on their own, often waiting until 12 weeks, or sometimes beyond, before feeling ready to share their news.

During this stage, supportive care can feel especially important. Having space to talk openly about fears, hopes, and uncertainty may help make the experience feel more manageable.

A Chinese medicine perspective

Medical investigations and test results are an important part of recurrent miscarriage care. Chinese medicine complements this by applying a traditional diagnostic framework that evaluates menstrual health, cycle characteristics, and broader symptom patterns.

Careful attention is given to features such as cycle length, ovulation timing, luteal phase characteristics, menstrual blood quality, and systemic symptoms as well as tongue and pulse diagnosis. These observations help guide diagnosis and inform treatment strategy.

Within this framework, diagnosis focuses on identifying patterns of imbalance, including aspects of blood quality and circulation, alongside functional systems described in Chinese medicine as Kidney, Spleen, and Liver patterns.

Chinese medicine also recognises the close relationship between emotional wellbeing and physical health. Emotions such as grief, sadness, anxiety, fear, or shock are understood as significant influences on physiological balance and are always considered within treatment planning.

Working in an integrated way

Fertility acupuncturists often spend significant time with patients, during which patterns may be identified. Occasionally, this can help highlight issues that warrant further medical investigation.

Symptoms such as persistent pelvic pain, unusual bleeding patterns, digestive concerns, or signs of hormonal imbalance may prompt referral.

Where acupuncture can offer support 

Following miscarriage, many women describe feeling physically depleted and emotionally overwhelmed. Sleep disruption, anxiety, and heightened stress responses are common.

Acupuncture is used to support:

• Nervous system regulation

• Sleep quality

• Reduction of physiological stress responses

• Promotion of parasympathetic activity

After miscarriage, Chinese medicine places strong emphasis on recovery before attempting conception again.

Many women find this kind of support easier to manage during a very difficult period.

Finding support

Recurrent miscarriage is complex, and every woman’s experience is different. While investigations do not always provide clear answers, appropriate support and care can make a meaningful difference.

Resources such as Tommy’s and the Miscarriage Association offer valuable information and support.

For women who wish to explore acupuncture as part of their wider support network, this can be discussed with a qualified practitioner experienced in fertility care.

If you would like to explore whether acupuncture may be appropriate for you, this is a conversation you are welcome to have with Anna or Claire.

About

Claire Norton, fertility acupuncturist based in Leicester, is a British Acupuncture Council member with over 14 years of experience supporting women through conception, IVF, and recurrent miscarriage.

Claire Norton Acupuncture, Leicester

Fertility care often focuses on individual numbers, timelines, and protocols — but truly personalised support is frequently missing. Important areas can be dismissed, and single markers such as AMH are sometimes used to make broad assumptions about a woman’s fertility, without exploring the wider context or giving equal consideration to male factor fertility.

In my clinical work, I regularly support women who go on to conceive despite being told they have a low AMH. Research clearly shows that AMH reflects ovarian reserve, not the ability to conceive naturally. When this marker is taken out of context, it can create unnecessary fear and limit how fertility is explored. Fertility is rarely explained by one number alone.

I work with a small number of clients who want to take a deeper look at their health and fertility. The majority of those I support go on to become pregnant — some naturally and some with IVF support. I attribute this not to doing more, but to taking the time to explore what may have been missed, asking better questions, and fully considering both female and male factors rather than focusing on isolated results.

Why people get stuck on their fertility journey

Many people aren’t stuck because there is “nothing wrong.” They’re stuck because the right questions haven’t been asked. Symptoms are often treated in isolation, assumptions are made based on age or AMH, and one-size-fits-all approaches are applied without individual context. Male factor fertility may not be fully explored, and some are rushed into IVF without adequate preparation or understanding of why conception hasn’t happened yet. Without clarity, the journey can feel repetitive, confusing, and emotionally exhausting.

Why your menstrual cycle matters more than most people realise

Your menstrual cycle is not something to endure each month — it’s a valuable source of information. It acts as a regular report from your body, often showing subtle signs of imbalance long before anything appears on scans or pregnancy tests. Changes in cycle length, ovulation patterns, bleeding quality, premenstrual symptoms, spotting, or pain can all provide insight into hormonal health and underlying contributors to infertility. When we truly understand the cycle, we gain important clues about what the body needs in order to conceive.

How I work — piecing the whole picture together

I work with people who want a deeper understanding of their fertility and the factors influencing it. This means looking beyond the ovaries or uterus and considering the body as a whole. Some clients come to me at the beginning of their fertility journey, wanting to optimise health before conception. Others arrive after years of trying, multiple failed IVF cycles, unexplained infertility, or recurrent miscarriage.

My work involves exploring menstrual and hormonal patterns in detail, investigating commonly overlooked areas such as inflammation, digestion, stress physiology, immune dysfunction, and the gut–vaginal–uterine microbiome. I support men as an equal part of the fertility picture and help clients make sense of tests they’ve already had, identifying whether anything meaningful has been missed.

Above all, I work relationally. I take time, listen carefully, and connect the dots — because fertility care works best when people feel seen, supported, and understood.

Who I’m best suited to support

I tend to work best with people who feel dismissed or unheard in standard care, and who want to understand why things aren’t shifting. My approach suits those who value thoughtful, evidence-informed, holistic support and are open to looking at the bigger picture rather than quick fixes.

If you’re ready to optimise your health and fertility and begin moving forward with clarity, you’re welcome to book a discovery call to explore whether working together feels right.

Book a free 15-minute discovery call or skip straight to a consultation by booking here, to learn how acupuncture can support your cycle, promote healthy flow, and optimise your fertility naturally.

January can bring an enormous amount of pressure. We’re surrounded by messages about new routines, big goals, fresh starts and complete reinventions. But if you’re trying to conceive, pressure is the last thing your body needs. Fertility doesn’t respond well to urgency. It responds to steadiness, clarity and support.

This year, rather than setting a long list of habits or trying to transform everything at once, I’m offering one simple, grounding fertility reset — a shift that supports your hormones, your energy, your nervous system and your cycles without adding overwhelm.

Step 1 — Stabilise your energy

Your body can’t heal, ovulate effectively, or communicate hormonally when it’s running on stress hormones such as cortisol. This is why stabilising your energy is one of the most important things you can do in January. Small, achievable changes can be incredibly powerful: eating breakfast within an hour of waking, making sure each meal includes protein, delaying caffeine until after food, and getting at least ten minutes of daylight exposure in the morning. These gentle adjustments help regulate your nervous system, which in turn creates a healthier foundation for fertility.

Step 2 — Understand your ovulation, not just your period

Many people naturally focus on period symptoms and forget that ovulation is the true centrepiece of the menstrual cycle. It’s the event that tells us the most about your fertility. Understanding your ovulation means becoming aware of fertile cervical mucus, tuning into your mid-cycle energy levels, learning how your LH surge behaves, and not relying solely on apps to pinpoint fertile days. When you pay attention to ovulation, you gain a much clearer picture of your hormonal health and your conception window.

Step 3 — Reduce inflammation gently

Inflammation plays a significant role in reproductive health. It can affect cervical mucus quality, egg development, luteal phase stability, implantation and even the experience of PMS. Reducing inflammation doesn’t require extreme diets or drastic measures. Instead, focus on bringing in supportive, sustainable habits: eating oily fish regularly, adding more colourful vegetables to meals, staying well-hydrated, including magnesium in your routine, and moving your body for twenty to thirty minutes each day. These consistent, gentle actions help create a calmer internal environment for conception.

Step 4 — Look at the whole picture

Fertility is multifaceted. It involves hormone regulation, sperm quality, stress physiology, the vaginal microbiome, sleep patterns, and the immune system — and all of these elements interact with one another. If last year left you feeling confused or unsure, make this the year you seek clarity rather than urgency. Understanding the whole picture allows you to follow a plan that fits your body rather than forcing a plan that increases pressure. Support should feel grounding, not overwhelming.

A fertility reset doesn’t need to be complicated. It just needs to be compassionate, balanced and aligned with your body. If you’d like guidance and a clearer plan for the year ahead, I’d love to support you.

Book a free 15-minute discovery call or skip straight to a consultation by booking here, to learn how acupuncture can support your cycle, promote healthy flow, and optimise your fertility naturally.

As the year draws to a close, many women and couples naturally take a moment to reflect on their fertility journey — what this year has held, what has felt challenging, and what they hope to feel differently in the next. If you’re heading into 2026 feeling tired, overwhelmed, or uncertain about your next steps, you’re not alone. A new year doesn’t have to mean drastic change. Often the most powerful shifts are the gentle, grounding ones that bring you back into connection with your body.

Below are five supportive ways to reset, realign, and move into the new year with more clarity and calm.

1. Reconnect with your cycle — without overtracking

Your menstrual cycle is one of the clearest windows into your hormonal health, acting almost like a monthly report card. It can tell you whether ovulation is being supported, how well your hormones are communicating, and how stress or inflammation may be influencing your body. Instead of feeling pressure to chart every detail, simply start by observing your natural patterns. Notice how your cervical mucus changes through the month, how your energy feels around ovulation, whether PMS feels different to usual, or if your cycle length shifts. These subtle observations can help you understand your body more deeply — without adding extra pressure or overwhelm.

2. Support your nervous system — the foundation of fertility

Fertility thrives when the body feels safe. When you are overwhelmed, overstimulated, or running on empty, the nervous system prioritises survival over conception. This is why emotional wellbeing is so deeply connected to hormonal balance. Supporting your nervous system doesn’t require major lifestyle changes; small daily routines can make a meaningful difference. Gentle morning rituals, walking outside in natural daylight, simple breathwork, reducing caffeine in the luteal phase, and ensuring meals include both magnesium and protein can all help your body move from a state of stress to one of steadiness. Over time, this calmer internal environment supports smoother hormone signalling and a healthier cycle.

3. Stop guessing — and start understanding your own body

This year, many women came into clinic feeling exhausted by trying to do everything “right”. They had experimented with multiple supplements, followed conflicting advice online, or been reassured that “everything is normal” even when it didn’t feel that way. The overwhelm itself can become another source of stress. As we move into 2026, choosing clarity over information overload can be transformative. You don’t need more supplements, more tracking, or more conflicting opinions — you need a deeper, more personalised understanding of what is actually relevant for your body. When you have clarity, the noise disappears, and the next steps become simpler and more effective.

4. Honour your energy throughout your cycle

Your energy is not meant to be the same every day. Hormonal rhythms naturally influence mood, motivation, appetite, and even how much exercise feels manageable. When you recognise these shifts, it becomes easier to work with your cycle rather than resisting it. For example, you may notice that high-energy workouts feel better around ovulation, while the luteal phase may call for restorative movement and more rest. Accepting these natural changes can reduce frustration, improve consistency, and help you feel more aligned with your body rather than battling against it. This cyclical awareness often becomes a game-changer for emotional balance and physical wellbeing.

5. Give yourself permission to begin again

The end of the year can bring comparison, pressure, and big emotions. But you don’t have to carry those feelings into January. One of the kindest things you can offer yourself is permission to begin again — at your own pace, in your own time, and without needing to have everything figured out. You are allowed to rest. You are allowed to change direction. You are allowed to seek clarity. And you are absolutely allowed to hold onto hope. Your fertility journey is unique, and there is no “right” timeline. Beginning again simply means choosing the next gentle, supportive step forward.

If you’d like personalised support, a clearer understanding of your cycle, or a grounded plan for the new year, I will be welcoming new fertility acupuncture clients from mid-January. Book a free 15-minute discovery call or skip straight to a consultation by booking here, to learn how acupuncture can support your cycle, promote healthy flow, and optimise your fertility naturally.