You’ve changed your diet. You’re tracking your cycle. You’re taking the supplements, working on your sleep, reducing your stress. You’re doing all the “right things.”

And yet… still no positive test.

If that sounds like you, please know this: you are not alone, and more importantly, it’s not your fault.

Many of the women and couples I work with in our fertility acupuncture clinic come to me feeling defeated, frustrated, and confused. They’ve worked so hard and made so many lifestyle changes—but they’re still not pregnant. And while it might feel like the only answer is to try harder, what often makes the difference is trying differently.

🧩 The Missing Pieces of the Puzzle

When I start working with a new client, the very first thing I do is review their test results in detail. In almost every case, something has been missed. These are not always glaring issues—but they’re enough to make conception more difficult.

Here are some of the common issues I see:

• Blood test results marked as “normal” but not actually optimal for fertility—hormones like progesterone, oestradiol, thyroid levels, or nutrient markers (like B12 or vitamin D).
• Semen analyses that are borderline or misleading. Just because it falls within the “normal” range doesn’t mean it’s ideal for conception. Often there are deeper issues affecting sperm health that are left unexplored.
• Incomplete hormone testing that misses key markers such as DHEA, LH, FSH, or cortisol.
• Lack of microbiome testing—both vaginal and seminal environments can hugely affect fertility and implantation success.

These kinds of oversights can hold you back for months—or even years.

🔍 Getting Real Answers

Once I have a clearer picture of what’s going on, we can begin a tailored plan. Depending on your situation, this might include:

• Advanced hormone panels to check for imbalances that are overlooked in standard care
• Thyroid and autoimmune testing, including antibodies that can affect ovulation and implantation
• Blood sugar assessments, since insulin resistance is a common hidden culprit in unexplained infertility
• Microbiome testing (vaginal or seminal) to ensure your reproductive environment is balanced and supportive

These tests go beyond the basics and help us move away from generic advice and towards truly personalised care.

🛠️ A Smarter Approach to Fertility

This approach isn’t about miracle cures or quick fixes. It’s about digging deep, finding out why your body isn’t conceiving, and then working strategically to improve your health and fertility step by step.

Most of my clients, once given the right information and support, do go on to conceive naturally.

That’s because we’re not just trying harder—we’re trying smarter. Fertility isn’t a pass/fail exam. It’s a complex system that depends on balance, not perfection.

And yes, it takes commitment. It takes time, and it’s an investment—not just in getting pregnant, but in your long-term health, and the health of the baby you’re hoping for.

When we approach fertility as something to optimise—not fix—we set a powerful foundation for healthy conception, pregnancy, and parenthood. Remember, a healthy parent gives the best possible start to a healthy baby.

If you feel like you’ve been doing everything “right” and still aren’t getting anywhere, please don’t give up. You don’t need to work harder. You just need to work differently—with better information and tailored support.

I’m here if you’re ready to get to the root of what’s really going on and take the next step in your journey.

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